Monday, 30 July 2007

NLP - Neuro Linguistic Programming

NLP stands for Neuro Linguistic Programming and was created by Richard Bandler and John Grinder about 30 years ago.

What is NLP?

It is basically an approach to improve thinking and communication skills

Why do people use it?

For a variety of different reasons including:

* Improving what they do now
* Developing particular business skills eg leadership, sales, executive coaching, presenting with impact and influencing
* Entertainment eg Paul McKenna and Darren Brown
* Changing habits eg stopping smoking, gaining confidence etc
* Seduction and enhanced pleasure
* Personal change and development

These can have a positive and significant impact on an individual's life

Where did it come from?

NLP is based on modelling good performance. The two co-founders Richard Bandler and John Grinder started NLP by modelling people who were able to help others develop and change.

NLP is particularly useful for anyone involved in personal or company change.

What are some of the basics?

NLP is really about exploring three areas:

1. Attitudes that lead to success
2. Modelling what works
3. Developing and using techniques that result from attitudes and modelling

What is the learning style?

It is learning by exploring. It is experiential, you learn by going first. If there is a key skill in NLP it is listening and watching without interpreting.

How has NLP helped you?

I have found that I am much more in charge of my life, communicating is easier and it has enabled me to open a lot of new doors.

Anything else?
Communication and learning leeds to change. It starts with yourself and not others. It can involve a certain amount of personal courage.

Source: Michael Beale, UK NLP Practitioner


Martin Stickland said...

Hello Antonia,

Nice blog you have here with lots of good info, I have been trying to work out how my brain ticks for a while and how I can improve myself. I have the NLP book 'NLP for dummies' which I have never looked at but I will now!

All the best from your homeland!

Kind regards


giovanny said...

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success by carefully adhering to the instructions.
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Here are the 4 easy steps to success:

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#4 Erin Jackson, P.O. Box 891, South Bend IN 46624 USA

#5 Jason Schadewalt, 9 W. Washington, Freeport,IL 61032 USA

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STEP 2: Now, in the Notepad delete the #1 name and address off the list that you see above, change the numbers so that (#6 becomes #5, #5 becomes #4, etc...) and now add YOUR Name and Address as # 6 on the list.

After you're done save it by selecting File, then Save. STEP 3: Change anything you need to, but try to keep this article as close to original as possible. Now, post your amended article to at least 300 newsgroups. (I think there are close to 24,000 groups) All you need is 300, but remember, the more you post, the more money you make! You won't get very much unless you post like crazy. This is perfectly legal! If you have any doubts, refer to Title 18 Sec. 1302 & 1341 of the Postal lottery laws.

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